Informing the family and life partner

How do you communicate with your life partner  what you want?

The procedures specific to phalloplasty    (surgical interventions  for restoring/reshaping the virile limb)  are an important decision,  both for you and for your life partner. That is why it is important to have an open  communication about   what you want. After all, the decision will impact  both  of you directly, whether  it is the  couple relationship or the sex life .

How do you communicate to your family and loved ones that you will make this intervention?

Once you have made the final decision and you have scheduled yourself or are going to schedule for the intervention, it  is also important to decide if you want to share this  with your family and relatives as well.

The subject may be sensitive, and some people prefer to keep the intervention private or to notify only a small number of people.          However,  the support of your  life partner and family or close friends is welcome in the process of surgery.

Whatever  your    decision,  we guarantee that we do our best to maintain the confidentiality of the procedure and we will help you communicate them more easily to your loved ones if you need it.

What advantages do you have when you tell your relatives  that you have scheduled yourself for this invention?

The recovery and healing process can prove   easier when you are   supported: you can tell your relatives what you need, and they will be there for you, especially when you  return home, after discharge.

Close friends can help you with certain responsibilities during the period when  you are present in the clinic for intervention, as well as  when  you come back, if you need  further support .

• As a rule, your life partner is the one who must support you  when you give you this change, and will be by your side throughout the procedure, but also before and after

If   your partner still has questions  or concerns, we can discuss them together – be sure to write them down in an e-mail, and we’ll reply in short time.

• Tell your partner how important it is for you to perform this
• The intervention will prove to be a radical change in your  life:  it will have a positive effect on your self-esteem and  contribute to well-being, and the connection with your loved ones will
• If your   partner will not be able to travel with you for the intervention – to take care of family, children and other responsibilities, how long you will be missing – you can communicate at all times on the phone, we would take care to communicate the details to him as long as you will be in the

What about  children? How is it recommended to communicate with them?

Regardless of their age,  we know that it is important for you to communicate to children about the intervention. In the case of small  children, there is no need to explain the intervention to them in detail, since they are not at the age at which they can fully understand . Therefore,  communicate to  them in a simple manner the fact that you will be missing  for a while, in a trip for work, for example.

 

If it is about children  of older age, they may   not want  to know details about the intervention. In this situation, it is essential for you to honestly communicate how important it is to  enjoy the benefits of these interventions.

You can also direct them to our website or to the sources you have used  for information, so that they  better understand your perspective.

Professional activity

If in the case of the family it is important to communicate what   in the invention you will  have, in the case of professional activity,  when you have to ask the employer that you need sick leave,  you can maintain discretion – we assure you the confidentiality of the  procedure.

We will provide you with a document certifying  the veracity of the intervention and the recommended time it takes  for normal healing.

Obviously, for such  an intervention, you will need a period off  from work. The type of your   act matters regarding the days off you will benefit from: if you are an entrepreneur, make sure you  appoint a trusted person to take care of the responsibilities that are usually incumbent on  you.

And if your job involves intense physical  effort, we will learn about the rest period you need for complete recovery.

When you choose to keep the intervention totally   confidential, we recommend that you still choose a contact person, with whom you communicate  while you are away. At the same time, we   can keep in touch with the designated person about the procedure and your condition,  whenever  necessary.

What steps do you need to take to leave everything  right at home?

• If you have plants and pets, make sure there is someone to take care of them for as long as you are missing;
• Leave in order everything related to mail, mail, invoices, similar responsibilities ;
• If  possible, make sure your home is neat and clean when  you get